[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.plstav.cz\/jak-se-laska-vyviji-zamysleni\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.plstav.cz\/jak-se-laska-vyviji-zamysleni\/","headline":"Jak se l\u00e1ska vyv\u00edj\u00ed – zamy\u0161len\u00ed","name":"Jak se l\u00e1ska vyv\u00edj\u00ed – zamy\u0161len\u00ed","description":"Partner jako rodi\u010d \u010c\u00e1ste\u010dn\u011b m\u00e1me nerealistick\u00e9 fantazie o l\u00e1sce, proto\u017ee na\u0161e prvn\u00ed zku\u0161enost (a z\u00e1kladn\u00ed model) intimn\u00edch vztah\u016f byla s rodi\u010di, kte\u0159\u00ed se o n\u00e1s … ","datePublished":"2022-08-11","dateModified":"2023-06-09","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.plstav.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.plstav.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/664d9cd24f58d4d0b526991e1fec4656a216f6db124bbd66c69ade0e846d4f16?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/664d9cd24f58d4d0b526991e1fec4656a216f6db124bbd66c69ade0e846d4f16?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"plstav.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.plstav.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/ruce.JPG","url":"https:\/\/www.plstav.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/ruce.JPG","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.plstav.cz\/jak-se-laska-vyviji-zamysleni\/","about":["L\u00e1ska"],"wordCount":405,"articleBody":"Partner jako rodi\u010d\u010c\u00e1ste\u010dn\u011b m\u00e1me nerealistick\u00e9 fantazie o l\u00e1sce, proto\u017ee na\u0161e prvn\u00ed zku\u0161enost (a z\u00e1kladn\u00ed model) intimn\u00edch vztah\u016f byla s rodi\u010di, kte\u0159\u00ed se o n\u00e1s jako d\u011bti starali (a mo\u017en\u00e1 n\u00e1s nepodporovali k sob\u011bsta\u010dnosti a odpov\u011bdnosti),\u00a0\u00a0nebo s rodi\u010di, kte\u0159\u00ed tam nebyli \u00fapln\u011b, aby se o n\u00e1s postarali (jak jsme v\u011bd\u011bli, \u017ee by m\u011bli), nebo n\u00e1m chyb\u011bli.Zat\u00edmco navenek hled\u00e1me n\u011bkoho, s k\u00fdm bychom si mohli u\u017e\u00edvat \u017eivota a bezprost\u0159edn\u011b\u00a0se bavit, na\u0161e z\u00e1visl\u00e9, romantick\u00e9 nitro vlastn\u011b nev\u011bdom\u011b tajn\u011b hled\u00e1 n\u00e1hradu za na\u0161eho rodi\u010de – n\u011bkoho, kdo se o n\u00e1s postar\u00e1, zlep\u0161\u00ed na\u0161e star\u00e9 r\u00e1ny, bude se o n\u00e1s starat. na\u0161e pocity a p\u0159ijm\u011bte n\u00e1s takov\u00e9, jac\u00ed jsme. Pokud jako mnoho lid\u00ed poch\u00e1z\u00edte z rodiny, kde jste v ran\u00e9m v\u011bku trp\u011bli odm\u00edtnut\u00edm nebo opu\u0161t\u011bn\u00edm, a\u017e p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 \u010dasto za\u010dnete hledat romantick\u00e9ho partnera, najdete n\u00e1hradn\u00edho rodi\u010de, kter\u00fd je jako skute\u010dn\u00fd rodi\u010d, kter\u00fd dol\u016f a skon\u010d\u00edte opakov\u00e1n\u00edm star\u00fdch, podv\u011bdom\u00fdch vzorc\u016f.Pokud se s partnerem h\u00e1d\u00e1te kv\u016fli hloupostem, pokud jeden nebo oba najednou ,,vybuchnete“\u00a0nebo se rozzlob\u00ed a druh\u00fd nech\u00e1pe pro\u010d, nebo pokud se ve vztahu c\u00edt\u00edte velmi nespokojen\u00ed a neklidn\u00ed, zva\u017ete to, pros\u00edm\u00a0nebo m\u016f\u017eete m\u00edt oba nejasnosti ohledn\u011b rozd\u00edlu mezi rodi\u010dovskou l\u00e1skou a pravou l\u00e1skou mezi rovnocenn\u00fdmi partnery.Zral\u00fd model l\u00e1skyKdy\u017e opust\u00edte z\u00e1visl\u00fd, d\u011btinsk\u00fd pohled na l\u00e1sku a pou\u017eijete dosp\u011blej\u0161\u00ed model, z\u00edsk\u00e1te jin\u00fd obr\u00e1zek rodinn\u00e9 l\u00e1sky. Zral\u00e1 l\u00e1ska je vz\u00e1jemn\u011b pe\u010duj\u00edc\u00ed, vz\u00e1jemn\u011b se d\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00ed a vz\u00e1jemn\u011b zodpov\u011bdn\u00e1, bez z\u00e1visl\u00e9, pot\u0159ebn\u00e9 nebo kontroluj\u00edc\u00ed nerovnov\u00e1hy moci p\u0159\u00edtomn\u00e9 v modelu d\u00edt\u011b\/rodi\u010d. Kdy\u017e p\u0159evezmete odpov\u011bdnost za to, aby l\u00e1ska byla vz\u00e1jemn\u011b uspokojuj\u00edc\u00ed, a o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1te od sv\u00e9ho partnera stejnou zralost, odpov\u011bdnost a respekt, zv\u00fd\u0161\u00edte svou schopnost p\u0159ij\u00edmat a rozd\u00e1vat l\u00e1sku na pln\u00fd v\u00fdkon, p\u0159i\u010dem\u017e si zachov\u00e1te svou sebe\u00factu a pocit kompetence.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.2\/5 - (8 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Jak se l\u00e1ska vyv\u00edj\u00ed – zamy\u0161len\u00ed","item":"https:\/\/www.plstav.cz\/jak-se-laska-vyviji-zamysleni\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]